So, for context I love baby Yoda and so does my eight year old son. We’re big fans of the Mandalorian, and the new Star Wars movies! I’m a single father, and have custody of our son and his mother sends me child support. I usually spend it responsibly on neccesities and such. I normally would buy his toys and stuff with my own money, however as of recent I was layed off my job and was extremely stressed out. I was scared I couldnt provide for my little angel. So I had a huge panic attack and stress bought a bunch of baby Yoda merchandise for me and my son! We enjoyed it at first, however soon after I noticed my credit had gone negetive and realized I made a grave mistake. So I called my mum asking for some cash in these desperate times, she asked me why and I told her I got layed off my job, which was true but I left out the baby Yoda part. Now, my mother talking to me all the time, she calls me at least twice a week knew about the whole child support situation. So she asked me about the child support money, so I decided it’d be best to be honest. I told her about my stress induced baby Yoda merchandise splurg. She told me I should refund all of the stuff I bought, but it was too late, too much work, and it would break my son’s heart. So she reluctantly agreed to give me some money, but if I did this again she wouldn’t help me. She also scolded saying it was childish and immature for someone my age to be doing this. So reddit am I the asshole?